Jenna had a dance recital this past week. She REALLY enjoyed getting all "dolled" up for the dress rehearsal and performance. The girls were required to pull ALL their hair into a bun (bangs and all). They also had to wear a bit of makeup.
With her hair pulled back and make-up on, she looked...too grown up. The boys were a bit scared/alarmed when they saw her. Jason kept saying, "Jenna, you look freaky." We had a quick lesson about how to say nice things...even when you are in "shock." Jenna wasn't afraid to put the boys in their place when she declared, "Boys, I may look different, but I'm still beautiful." She felt beautiful and she wasn't going to let anyone convince her otherwise.
It was a lesson in being careful of what you say...even for me. I made the comment, "Wow, she doesn't even look like my child (with the makeup on)." So, on the performance night as we were about to start the "beautification process," Jenna mentioned that it was time for me to say "and she doesn't look my little child anymore."
Yes, there's a little pit in my stomach that is fearing the teenage years.